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Faren er like lite ansvarlig for sønnens gjerninger som han er ansvarlig for dine gjerninger.
Selvsagt er han ikke ansvarlig for sønnens gjerninger. Det forhindrer ikke at han nok reflekterer over om ting kunne vært annerledes dersom...... Vis meg den far som IKKE ville føle skyld eller i det minste gjøre seg tanker om eget ansvar i en slik situasjon!
...hvilket er noe ganske annet enn å bli anklaget av andre for, ved å være en fraværende far, å ha bidratt til at ABB ble den han er.
Det du skriver der innebærer at barndommen til ABB ikke har preget ABB.
Barndom er noe som setter stort preg på alle mennesker. Avvisende foreldre vil sette store merker i ethvert barnesinn, sinn som senere blir voksne.
Faren har trolig mer enn nok med seg og sitt. Tankene på hva han kunne gjort annerledes.
Fikk bare lyst til å legge inn ABB sine egne meninger om faren Jens.
Siden det er gjenstand for diskusjon.
<My parents were not politically active but supported the policies of the
Norwegian Labour Party which was common for most individuals working in the public sector. My stepfather, Tore, was a moderately right wing while my stepmother, Tove, was a moderate cultural Marxist and feminist. My mom, Wenche, was an apolitical moderate feminist.
Jens and Tove wanted child custody and wanted to raise me in Paris. They lost the child custody case in an Oslo court a few years later.
I visited Jens and Tove on a regular basis in Paris and at our summer house/cottage in Normandie, FR and Notodden, NO
until they divorced when I was 12.
I had a good relationship with him and his new wife at the time, Tove Øvermo, until I was 15. I still have contact with Tove until this day
but have not spoken to my father since he isolated himself when I was 15 (he wasnt very happy about my graffiti phase from 13-16
. He has four children but has cut contact with all of them so it is pretty clear whose fault that was. I dont carry any grudge but a couple of my half siblings do. The thing is that he is just not very good with people. I tried contacting him five years ago but he said he was not mentally prepared for a reunion due to various factors, his poor health being one.>
Mvh.KW